Entitled best friends

 Some one asked via a Reddit message " Your girlfriend is Asian. What type of Asian and did you date her just because she was Asian? " well here is my response. Sorry it is a long one. Things are complex for me.

Let me lay out who my GF is....In my city there is a very popular Japanese chinese fusion place run by two families. This place had the female members on wait staff and male staff cooking. Yes in Japan it is normal for women to attend to the guest while the men cook. Cooking is seen as a skill that requires steady hands and discipline. Plus a iron will to withstand the heat . So yeah cooking is a man's work. I remember this because I use to eat their a lot because I loved the portions.

Anyway given that A is a short small person who reminds people of a doll she was put on the front of the of house. Greeting people and giving out menus and water oe bread I guess. Not really sure what her role was beyond being a mascot.

I had a zero contact childhood and to compensate I watched animated love stories. Okay I Watched anime and loved everything Asian. If Kim Joon from North Korea had offered me a job murdering people by gun shot to the head. But was offering me a Korean bride as a sign on bonus I wouldn't hesitate to sign on. I was basically obsessed with anything Asian. So when I meet A for the first time I was speech less and experienced for the first time the darkness of my soul. You see the moment I saw her I knew she was perfect for me. The family had a strict dress code of primary colors while at work and she was wearing all black. When I saw she was a rebel I felt a connection to her cause and knew that family members just don't understand you sometimes. However when i saw she was asian my obsession with anime got into high gear and when she said " Welcome to .." and then grabbed my arm to guide me to the booth she triggers an instant lust reaction. i had a ow dear god moment that had me gasping for air. My friends who were laughing slightly when I froze up in the door way. saw my expression go from shock to labored breathing and pure obsession. I was actually entertaining the idea of abducting her.

A voice in my head actually broke down into a step by step instruction on how I could get this Asian woman out of the eattery and into my house. The break down included her being in a dog collar chained to the wall. But my friends who saw this as an enjoyable night out realized I was freaking out. My rasping breath is a massive indication I am about to do something people would consider a crime. My friends take me to a booth and get me some water and after I calm down my friend Lance says " This is getting real guys. Did you see his reaction to her? " Lisa says " Yeah I saw freaking out and I know that isn't good. " She knows from first hand experience about that after she appeared in front of me wearing just a towel and touched my arm. This was done for laughs in front of my other friends. They found my reactions interesting. But the moment she touched my arm and asked " Are you uneasy? " I reacted by simply yanking her towel off in front of everyone and kissing right on the mouth as she stood there in shock. So Lisa knows that me freaking out isn't good. After a moment I recover and we order some food. As were are eating Lance drops his plastic fork onto his plate and says " I got a brilliant idea. Lets get wolf here and that mascot together. " Lisa say " No fucking way. He can't handle that and you know it will end badly. Now I had returned to my normal emotions are masked state. Normally my emotions are consealed. But any contact triggers a lust response and my instant lust response that is a gate way to other emotions. So being indifferent I said " do what you want. "

Lance got his entire social media network working on this.

Unlike other people Lance is selective about who he allows into his social media and has formed a group of locals who he can have lunch with or dinner with just like now. Lance also has an odd thing he does. Do you know when you buy a kid a gift and feel happy when the kid is over joyed. Lance had this same reaction but to the extreme. We joked that lance had an orgasm when helping people. We once joked that if a woman was unable to have a child because her husband was having sperm troubles. Lance would impregnate her on the first try without any pleasure during or after. But the moment she announced she was pregnant and how everyone was happy about it. Lance would be overcome with orgasmic light and fade into nothing until he was needed again.

After we finish our meal and headed to Lisa's to watch TV. Lance went home and got started collecting information and giving people task. Lance would have people go into the eatery and while in ear shot say " Wolf was so nice today. " Yes my friend call me wolf. A is working and keeps hearing about this man wolf and about how awesome he is. After two months of this on a daily basis Lance has us return to the eatery for dinner..Lance starts joking about my previous visit and we start talking while waiting for our stir fry Eventually A realized they were calling me wolf and remember all the gossip. She comes over and starts to ask questions. Lance interrupted by saying " If you want to know more about wolf why not be his girlfriend? ". There was a silence and I saw lance waiting for her response. She gave me a once over and said " I don't get involved with consumers. " Before she could finish Lance says " Lets go! " We follow Lances lead leave and as we are on the side walk A says " Your food? " Lance looks her dead in face and says " Put it in a container to go and give it o wolf. I asked you an honest question and you quote company policy at me. I thought this was a friendly family place so we could have an honest conversation. I WILL NEVER EAT HERE AGAIN. We will never be your consumers ever again. Following his logic I agree and make an angry face. We wait outside and A bring us our food. I hand A 30 dollars and turn to leave. Lance says " I expect an apology for wolf written and mailed before we will return. " Lance hands her his old school business card and we leave.

I was disappointed that lance failed at his task. Lance gets depressed when he fails at helping people. Lance shares the results with his social media group. people in his group know of me but they are angry that lance is upset. They act out and spread the word. people who normally don't give a fuck about anyone suddenly hear lance is upset that his helping didn't work. These people were pissed off. The most vocal was Lances mother. Her reaction was pure entitled. She hears that a young lady who is forced to work all day in a eatery was offered a relaxed evening of snacks and movies as a way to assist her in a hectic time in her life. But that this ungrateful girl refused by quoting from a food chain policy rule book. Lances mother had a local freeze out business dropped. A of course was also tending to the eatery facebook page. Tons of messages poor in about me. They asked why did they refuse Lances request and why they lied to everyone about being family owned.

Losing money by the day and gaining negative attention from Lances mother. A went to Lances house and asked lance to accept her apology and end the freeze out. Lance had me come over when A first arrived after stalling for time for ten minutes by saying how offended he was by her response. The moment I arrive Lance brings her over to me and has me hold her in my arms. The moment is surreal. A looks directly up at me confused. Lance says " You are wolf's girlfriend. Wolf is your boyfriend You will be a couple and love each other. " I feel A relaxing to my arms and accepting what Lance said to her. Lances mother is smiling at her sons good deed. Suddenly A says " But my father says I can't date Consumers. " Lances mom interjects " He hasn't eaten there for months he isn't a consumer. " A agrees with that and nods. Lance and his mother nods as well. Lance ends this moment with a cheesy gesture. He hugs the both of us.

Why do I call my GF by the letter A? Her name is written 愛魅力的な....Which is Attractive lover or something. Most people here her names meaning and say " Awwww that's so cute. " So I started calling her All but she insisted I just call her A instead. But I rarely use that name given I call her by pet names like cutie and good girl plus many others all the time.

Yes we have stayed together. Even with a forceful start we started to get along and I helped her out with a lot of things until we forged an emotion connection due to advice Lance gave her. " Whenever you speak to wolf make sure you have his attention. You can do so by holding his hand or something." Lance knew about my childhood given he was an old friend and knew what she needed to do to forge a real connection